Clare Wildman Coaching, Milton Keynes

This will be an on going review in life coaching. There will be regular updates to my individual progress and I will point out the positives in my experience.

My coach spent the first 20 years of her working life not knowing 'what she wanted to be when she grew up'. I am sure many people still don’t know even at the age of 90.

Clare is now a successful life coach helping many people from all walks of life and careers to attain their dreams. After all, we all need help.

Clare Wildman believes in providing support to others in achieving their dreams. Once this is established on paper Claire works closely with you and your thoughts by guiding you towards them in small and large steps. A great smile, open ears in a relaxed environment from a lady who loves learning is a fantastic way to “do” the doing.

Clare’s background comes from experience in support, training and management. The Coaching Academy have added to her skills sets where they have shown her ways to apply them to coaching.

Clare is committed to ongoing personal development so that she can assist in your personal development.

I went for my induction that lasted an hour and half. I was given a wheel with 6 zones to work on. On this wheel of mine I had to decide which aspects of my life I’d like to work towards improving.

I selected: Seeing friends more / Spending time with family / Buying a house / Completing regular exercise / Working on my money management / Relaxing more often.

My zones to my own personal wheel are thought of, created and achieved by my self not the coach.  My coach listened patiently with ease while I waffled away in our first meet, the more waffling I seem to blurt out the clearer my thoughts and ideas became. Listening at last, something that most people fail to achieve in the busy hectic real world. As strange as it sounds my coach actually gave me the answers with out telling me them. I was soon to realise I had the all the answers my-self; Even in silence my brain was telling me to focus on new ways and angles to achieve my desires. My coach’s subtle guiding comments helped me, help my self.

My first goal: buying a home.

My meeting with Clare turned into a one-way brain storming session. Quite simply: what would I need to do to buy a home?

Earn more money, save existing money; provide varied routes to earning money, setting small goals came from these thoughts.

I realised that I needed to set a goal of earning X amount in order to buy a home. I went away from the session feeling focused, full of energy and happy to work towards my first goal, something I had been putting off due to being lazy and unmotivated. The next day I made many phone calls, you know the ones we all put off until tomorrow. To my surprise my first session with Clare paid off, I was starting to hit my target to get my X amount. I now realise I needed to be consistent and focused in achieving my dreams. The next session will be on money management where I will focus on keeping my money and not spending every penny I have.

Clare Wildman is a great listener with lots of knowledge and will most certainly aim to help you too. Give her a call 01908 368607 or go to her website www.clarewildmancoaching.co.uk